It's okay to feel your feelings and still be a good friend. Anybody constantly overriding your feelings with a reminder of how bad things are for them - with a monopoly on sad has work to do in being a good friend. Pain is pain - everyone has it and there's no monopoly on who can feel it. In fact, the more we allow those feelings to be felt and moved through the more empathic and compassionate we will be. FEEL THOSE FEELINGS! Love, Angie #mantrasfortherestofus #lovingkindness

There is nothing wrong with being proud of yourself! Absolutely nothing wrong! Say it again and again until you can stand up in your PRIDE! Did you get up this morning? Be proud! Were you kind to yourself? Be proud! Make a doctors appointment? Be proud! Set a boundary Take a nap Say no Say yes.... Be proud! Love, Angie #mantrasfortherestofus #lovingkindness #soulcare #spiritualdirectionandsoulcare #soulcoach #pdxspiritualdirection #pdxspiritualdirectionandsoulcare #mycreative

I know it is not easy- believe me I know! But loving ourselves is the key to real love. I’m working on this by doing loving-kindness meditations daily, bringing awareness to my feelings throughout the day, and just trying to practice presence. I want to be a conduit of love and love has trouble flowing out of someone who doesn’t love themselves. I do love myself but like I said in my most recent podcast https://anchor.fm/angie-fadel/episodes/Bringing-The-Parts-Together-eadd

I know it’s complicated but in a silo of the same ideas, from the same people, in the same place, produces the same thing. We need all of our differences And those differences given space to be expressed, heard and acted on Angie Fadel #mantrasfortherestofus #lovingkindness #soulcare #spiritualdirectionandsoulcare #soulcoach #pdxspiritualdirection #pdxspiritualdirectionandsoulcare #mycreativebiz #allvoices #bekind #loving #selfcare #montramondays

Like I said before Loneliness Is Corrosive. When we hold the truth inside of us that we are not alone, that we are part of everything and everything is part of us- we can’t distance ourselves from our world and the suffering of others or our own suffering. We are interconnected in everything. angie #mantrasfortherestofus #lovingkindness #soulcare #spiritualdirectionandsoulcare #soulcoach #pdxspiritualdirection #loneliness #pdxspiritualdirectionandsoulcare #mycreativebiz #inne

These images edited so I don’t get removed from anything if you want the real deal hit me up and I’ll send it to you. F*ck shame and the horse it rode in on! Shame is a complicated and complex thing inside most of us. It often leads us to do, say, and embody what isn’t really true about us. And most of the time we aren’t even aware that shame is leading us. It has over the years become a corrosive belief we hold about ourselves- I am worthless, I am not lovable, Nobody could

Enough said! #mantrasfortherestofus #mantramondays #vision #passion #Success #mantra #TamiaDeary #pdxasc #podcast #soulcarewithAngieFadelpodcast #selfcare #selfcarecommunity #bipoc #lgbtqai #immigrant

Sometimes believing,showing up, and speaking up is enough. I talk about how to do this in my latest podcast Holiday Survival Tips and Tricks part 2 #selfcare #boundaries #selfcare

Thoughts for today and everyday! But especially around the holidays! #mantrasfortherestofus #holidaySurvivalguides #feelings #boundaries #soulcare #selfcare #soulcarewithangiefadelpodcast

It's that time of year again- time to not get swept up in MAGICAL THINKING or CYNICISM. How do I avoid that, you might ask? Well, take stock, evaluate, and make a plan. Listen to Holidays Survival Tips & Tricks part 1 And remember you are not alone in the struggle to be safe, find joy and peace, and not get manipulated this season. I also have posts from last year that may come in handy. Take care of yourself! #soulcarewithangiefadelpodcast #soulcarewithangiefadelpodcast #hol

We are complex, multifaceted, and able to hold many feelings and ways of being all at the same time. It can be a painful realization when we aren’t one or the other - We are spectrum people trying to live fully who we are. 🌈 💙💚💛❤️🌈 This was born from my last podcast and a wonderful conversation with my niece and her girlfriend. Season of The Sad #selfcare #soulcarepodcast #soulcoach #spectrumpeople #spiritualdirectionandsoulcare #sorrow #joy #anger #gentleness #peace #r

Why is it so hard to love the child inside us? It seems far easier to be our own bullies. The twist in that is it doesn’t make us more loving, kind, or open to ourselves or others. On the contrary it keeps us locked up, hiding, lonely and not living fully into who we really are. So maybe it is serving someone or something because we are not living as are fullest selves. This mantra is from my most recent podcast conversation with Father James Joiner Church Drag Love, Angie #

What does that even mean? Failing at being an adult! Not measuring up Not meeting social requirements Not breathing No white picket fence Who's requirements are we not meeting? And do those requirements really matter? I spend a lot of time thinking and talking about this as a mother of two teenagers, one who has been on his own for the last year and one who is going into her last year of high school- it is an often discussed topic. I should have done that I should have known