This is a hard one for me. It's not always what others consider failure that throws me off, its some unspoken almost subconscious idea of what I believe is a failure that messes me up and erodes my self-confidence. Little by little my awareness is built, but there are still days and weeks where I'm beaten up by what I think I'm failing at. I'm trying to be kinder to myself. I hope you can be kinder to yourself as well.